Swinging is a controversial topic when it comes to marriage. Many believe that marriage is a sacred union that includes man and wife, but what happens when another couple gets in the mix? A swinger’s lifestyle may include different concepts that typical married couples are not used to. Yet, many still don’t believe in whole idea and wonder why people engage in this sort of thing.
So the idea of your spouse wanting to date outside of your marriage makes you wonder whether or not it will have a positive effect on your relationship with your spouse. In many cases it depends on how you look at the situation and how open you really are into allowing another person into your marriage. What reasons does your spouse claim for wanting to date or be with another person outside of the marriage? Does your spouse want you to engage in activity with this other person? How does this change or label the status of your marriage?