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Online Dating Tips for Bank Holiday Enjoyment: Actions to Avoid


The online dating industry sees a significant amount of activity during bank holidays. This is a fun time for millions of singles seeking a companion while having an extra day off from work. You want to find someone you can enjoy spending time with, someone you can talk to, and someone with the same interests. Maybe the last bank holiday wasn’t want you wanted it to be and you are looking to be successful this time around. Whatever the case may you are entitled to find the perfect someone to spend your bank holiday with.

Yet, some people may not realize actions they do online hurts chances of someone approaching there profile or someone passing up the option to send a message saying hello. This is a good time to review actions to avoid that could hurt chances of getting connected to the right person. You may significantly increase chances of someone reaching out to you through your profile, or you may work up the confidence to approach someone you find interesting. Here are a few tips to consider when online dating during the bank holiday.

Good Pictures Are Helpful but Try Not To Be So Picky!

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Each person has their level of expectations in what they want in a companion. In some cases, if you are too picky about who you want to be with, this may decrease the number of people to consider. Many people seeking someone online may get an idea of what the person is like through their pictures. Avoid being too judgmental and try to be more considerate of their qualities as a person.

Don’t Judge Someone Right Away: You Don’t Have to Know Everything Just Yet

Try not to get obsessed about every little detail about them right off the bat. Consider looking at broad information about them first. This gives a better sense of how much in common you may have with each other. An online profile may have all sorts of details about a person including what they like to watch, favorite foods, and so forth. Consider other elements such do they live in the same location as you, and access their taste and quality in activities you may like. If you waste time obsessing over little details that may not tell who they really are, you could actually miss out on meeting a good person.

Don’t Assume Profile Has No Meaning: What is Their Profile Saying to You?

This is just like meeting someone new or you get invited to visit someone at their home for the first time. You feel a certain tone or essence about a person. So, what tone are you picking up from their profile? This helps you get an idea of how meaningful a person can be. In other words, you are reading between the lines of their profile. Do you feel they are sincere, happy, bitter, or unhappy? Do you sense a certain type of behavior from the way they provided written information about themselves? You often get a sense of how true someone is and whether they have sincere motives for finding someone to be with.

Don’t Access a Profile Just by Personality Claims

Studies have shown that online dating profiles are common areas of personal interest people may not always be honest about. In some cases you can’t depend on personality claims a person says in their profile. This is because some people may not be honest about such characteristics. Personality traits include being optimistic or humorous. There is nothing wrong in saying you are optimistic or humorous, but some people may not know how to describe their characteristics. Instead, they may post characteristics commonly found in an online dating profile without truly taking the time to think about who they really are. Some say personality claims may not mean anything at face value. But, it can be helpful to find profiles that provide a little more evidence of a specific characteristic a person claims to have. For instance, they may share a personal experience that would back up their claim.

A Profile is Just a Preview of a Person: Don’t Get Attached to It

No matter how many profiles you have read and claim you think you know someone because of what they share, you shouldn’t get attached to them because of what was mentioned in their profile. In other words, when you meet them in person try not to assume they are everything based on what was mentioned. Their profile should give you an idea of what to expect, but you should consider other concrete evidence such as their demeanor, eye contact, manners and so forth when you meet them in person.

Berni, 47 from Whitefield, Greater Manchester Looking For Discreet Relationships


Berni, 47 from Whitefield, Greater Manchester

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Berni’s Characteristics

Eye Colour: Hazel
Hair Colour: Dark Brown
Hair Length: Long
Height: 5’1″-5’4″
Build: Voluptuous
Ethnicity: Caucasian / White
Religion: None
Marital Status: Married
Smoker: None
Drinker: Light
Playing Safe: Always
Shaved: Smooth
Pierced: No

About Berni

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I am new to this internet dating/sex site – “A virgin”…pleazzzze be gentle with me.

I am a mature voluptuous woman with ample curves. Fun loving and enjoyable. Sexy and sassy with a lust for fun. Excited with the temptations of life. Looking for a mature gentleman/gentlemen for mutual pleasure and friendship – can travel but not accommodate. Require chatty, interesting, naughty but nice males……all in good time once a connection has been established.

Not interested in S & M, bondage or any pain, no threesomes, no role play… to one only.

Anything you wish to know ASK

Berni is here for

Casual encounters and Discreet relationships.
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Ella, 54 from Glenrothes, Fife Looking For Casual Encounters


Ella, 54 from Glenrothes, Fife

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Ella’s Characteristics

Eye Colour: Blue
Hair Colour: Red
Hair Length: Short
Height: Below 5′
Build: Petite
Ethnicity: Caucasian / White
Religion: Christian
Marital Status: Married
Smoker: Light
Drinker: Social
Shaved: Smooth
Pierced: No
Favourite Position: Deep Stick

About Ella


I am Ella, been married 36 years looking for a man or men to join me to cuckold my husband. Looking for men around my age or older. Sorry younger men just make it more complicated. Just my hung up.

If you are cheating on your wife please just pass me by as I am not interested in married men cheating on their wife.

I will not speak with faceless profiles, messages will just be deleted.

Ella’s Interests

Night clubs, Fetish clubs, Adult movies at home, Adult movies at cinema, Swinging parties, Visiting “Special” shops, Dogging, Oral – receiving, Oral – giving, Anal, Mutual Play, Role Playing, Voyeurism and Orgies
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Lorna, 30 from Pontefract, West Yorkshire Looking For Saucy Dating


Lorna, 30 from Pontefract, West Yorkshire

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Lorna’s Characteristics

Eye Colour: Green
Hair Colour: Dark Brown
Hair Length: Shoulder
Height: 5’1″-5’4″
Build: Cuddly
Ethnicity: Caucasian / White
Religion: None
Marital Status: Single
Smoker: None
Drinker: Light
Playing Safe: Always
Shaved: Smooth
Pierced: No
Favourite Position: Doggy Style

About Lorna

I am an independent single woman who lives in Pontefract. I have been single for the last six years. I have spent the last few years concentrating on my career and everyone else. This year I have decided to get back on the horse and back ‘out there’.

There are many interests that I have including cinema, socialising with friends, theatre (my favourite is The Rocky Horror Picture Show – love the dressing up part), playing pool, sports and traveling. I do like a lot of sports but I am far from a tom boy. For the last six years I have played for a Leeds unisex softball team (like baseball), and my team travel around the country during the summer months competing in tournaments.

I am a good person who always thinks about others before myself, a bit of a free sprit (it’s nice to do what you want when you want to), confident, funny and generally a positive person.

I am looking for a good, patient guy, someone who doesn’t have to swear every two minutes and doesn’t feels the need 2 tlk in txt spk all the time. I would like to meet a non smoker aged between 29 and 37. I want to chat and get to know someone a little bit before arranging any meetings.

Lorna’s Interests

Adult movies at home, Oral – receiving, Oral – giving, Role Playing and Fun with food
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