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Six Ways To Get Out of a Sexual Rut

How to get out of sexual rut

How to get out of sexual rut

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Getting to a relationship can be arduous work. The path to a great one can take awhile and be filled with devastating bumps along the way. But just because you finally landed a relationship worth staying in doesn’t mean the work suddenly stops. Just like a job, you did the work to get there, but now you have to stay there. However, this work is a lot more fun than your 9-5.

One of the key elements you have to work on is your sex life. Some people are naturally adventurous and never tire of each other, but the rest of us frequently fall victim to ruts and routines. These things are perfectly normal, but it’s imperative that you work on them. A failing sex life can ultimately be the demise of any wonderful relationship, so let’s make it thrive. Follow some of these tips to get things interesting again and your partner coming back for more.
Relocation:
Bored of your surroundings? Simply move beyond your bedroom walls. You have a whole house, a whole car, a whole community to play in, don’t limit yourself to your bedroom. If full on exhibitionism isn’t your thing, you can try getting handsy and making out in public. Go places that don’t allow you to progress further. This will just leave you both wanting more. If you’re nervous about it, start small and step it up each time. Small might mean your hallway or a hotel balcony. It’s up to you.

Identity:
Why not be someone else for the evening? Role playing http://www.lovepanky.com/sensual-tease/seduction/sexual-role-play-guide allows you to lose yourself in a fake someone else. Throw on a wig, an outfit and accent and you’ll find that you suddenly feel a little more confident, bold and daring. Create scenes and scenarios for each other to see what turns you on.

Toys:
There’s a reason we played with toys when we were kids: they were fun and fueled our imagination. So why forego using them as adults. I don’t think we should. Head to your nearest novelty shop or online sex store like Adam and Eve and pick out a few toys that excite you and your partner. Toys can help you explore each other’s body, learn something new about your own and break out of a sexual mold you may have been in. With millions of toys on the market, you’re bound to find something that speaks to you.

Three:
This one is for the bold and stable. Do not proceed in this section if you have jealousy issues, relationship problems or massive insecurities, because you will only make things worse. However, if you feel like your relationship and emotions are stable and your sex life just needs a pick me up, bringing in a third person might be a fun option. Make sure you and your partner are aware of the consequences before doing so, such as jealousy, affairs, lost trust, and overall drama. If you think you can handle it, you’ll find that the benefits are awesome. Be sure to pick someone you know and trust, but aren’t great friends with. It’s also easiest if they are single. Make sure there are no prior crushes or major attractions to this person.

Movies:
Like the idea of a third, but don’t know anyone or feel like your relationship could take it? Totally fine, bring in a pseudo third, fourth and even fifth by watching porn together. Use porn as a way to inspire you, to turn you on or to talk about positions and themes that you’ve never participated in before. Then be sure to keep it playing while you’re having fun. The on screen fun might even inspire you to be more vocal.

Food:
Why have dinner at the table when you can have it on your partner? Bring food into the bedroom to make things feel a little more risque and a lot more exciting. You can try eating food off of each other, using the typical chocolate or whip cream, or bring out the big guns like zucchini and cucumbers and see what kind of fun they can inspire. Be sure to throw away these vegetables afterwards.

Research Reviews Understanding of Sexual Needs

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Understanding of Sexual Needs

Research data collected from Southern California University participants’ reviews needs of sexual intimacy. The study is also known as NSIS (Needs for Sexual Intimacy Scale).  Different sexual issues were reviewed during the study including sexual desires, sexual attitudes and sexual awareness.  Males were viewed to have higher levels of sexual needs and desires compared to females, but the study takes a look at different concepts on a broader scale. This is due to sexual intimacy being seen as more than just meeting desires and motivations, according to researchers.

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Unusual and Fun Ways to Spice up Your Sex Life

Unusual and Fun Ways to Spice up Your Sex Life

Unusual and Fun Ways to Spice up Your Sex Life

Having sex can be a fun and pleasurable experience in a relationship.  Things are often interesting when you’re with someone new or when you have been with that special someone for an extended period of time. But it is common for things to get boring after a while.  Understanding the needs of yourself and your partner may help give an idea on how to spice things up in the bedroom. When it comes to shaking things up, the following ideas may help in discovering your own ways of bring new excitement into your sex life.  Keep in mind that some of these ideas are out of the ordinary, but in some cases you may need to come out of your comfort zone.

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Oral Sex Void Study

Oral Sex Void Study

Oral Sex Void Study

Researchers survey close to 6,000 people regarding personal views on oral sex.  People surveyed included married men and men who are in a relationship. When it comes to the subject of oral sex, some men believe other couples may do it more or less than others.  About 34 percent of men who took part in the study claim they would seek a secret partner if they were not getting oral sex.  Close to 8 percent of men claim they would pay someone for oral sex.  While men who participated in the study are married or in a relationship, men of the same status who wouldn’t considered seeking oral sex from someone outside of their relationship was also part of the study (referred to as the controlled group).

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Can You Spice Up Your Marriage by Engaging in Swinging?

You Spice Up Your Marriage by Engaging in Swinging

You Spice Up Your Marriage by Engaging in Swinging

Swinging is a controversial topic when it comes to marriage.  Many believe that marriage is a sacred union that includes man and wife, but what happens when another couple gets in the mix? A swinger’s lifestyle may include different concepts that typical married couples are not used to.  Yet, many still don’t believe in whole idea and wonder why people engage in this sort of thing.

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