Have you ever had a threesome?
For most people, the answer to the above question is “no”. Many men and women are fantasising about threesomes but are too timid to try it out or too shy to discuss it with their sexual partner. In order to talk your boyfriend or girlfriend into a threesome you must know a few things that you absolutely MUST discuss and do before trying it out.
Information is key
The irony is that in many couples, both the man and the woman might secretly crave for some threesome action but will never talk about it. The first thing you must do is actually ask your partner if he or she has thought about it and if they would be open to trying a threesome. Men can first suggest a threesome with another man to make the woman feel like a princess of sex and women can suggest a threesome with another woman to make the man feel like a king with a harem. Just discuss your fantasies with your partner and you may be surprised what you will find out! Many women fantasise their men having sex with their man’s friends and we all know that most men secretly want to poke their girl’s friends. If both of you are willing to consider inviting a third person into your sexual relationship, then read on.
It is not the end!
Now, both you and your partner must realise that a threesome does not spell the end of your committed relationship. If your boyfriend wants to share you with his friend, this does not mean he considers you a whore and if your girl wants to invite a friend over, it doesn’t mean she is secretly a lesbian! Sex has many dimensions and you can love your partner while having sex with them AND another person. Just try it out! After the threesome, you will realise that a new chapter in your sexual lives has opened. This is what you must tell your boyfriend or girlfriend to persuade them in trying a threesome; nothing changes afterwards, you just had amazing sex with a third person.
Finding the right third person
This is the trickiest part, how to find the best person to invite in a threesome without botching it and without creating awkward situations with friends and family. First of all, discuss what kind of threesome you want. If you are a woman and want a second man, discuss it with your partner and see if there are any friends that might already be interested in doing that. If you are a girl and want a second girl, then things are usually easier and chances are that one of your hot girlfriends will be interested in tasting your man. Now, if you are a man and want to invite a second woman in your bed, discuss with your partner about what kind of woman would she be comfortable with having sex with. If you want to share your own woman with another man, just ask one of your buddies if they want to lend a helping penis; they would most probably be glad to help! If you have no friends that are up to the task then you must look further. Dating websites are perfect in finding sexy and dependable people for threesomes so join with your partner and browse for the perfect man or woman to join you in your sexual adventures!