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How To Talk Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Into a Threesome

Have you ever had a threesome?

For most people, the answer to the above question is “no”. Many men and women are fantasising about threesomes but are too timid to try it out or too shy to discuss it with their sexual partner. In order to talk your boyfriend or girlfriend into a threesome you must know a few things that you absolutely MUST discuss and do before trying it out.

Information is key

The irony is that in many couples, both the man and the woman might secretly crave for some threesome action but will never talk about it. The first thing you must do is actually ask your partner if he or she has thought about it and if they would be open to trying a threesome. Men can first suggest a threesome with another man to make the woman feel like a princess of sex and women can suggest a threesome with another woman to make the man feel like a king with a harem. Just discuss your fantasies with your partner and you may be surprised what you will find out! Many women fantasise their men having sex with their man’s friends and we all know that most men secretly want to poke their girl’s friends. If both of you are willing to consider inviting a third person into your sexual relationship, then read on.

It is not the end!

Now, both you and your partner must realise that a threesome does not spell the end of your committed relationship. If your boyfriend wants to share you with his friend, this does not mean he considers you a whore and if your girl wants to invite a friend over, it doesn’t mean she is secretly a lesbian! Sex has many dimensions and you can love your partner while having sex with them AND another person. Just try it out! After the threesome, you will realise that a new chapter in your sexual lives has opened. This is what you must tell your boyfriend or girlfriend to persuade them in trying a threesome; nothing changes afterwards, you just had amazing sex with a third person.

Finding the right third person

This is the trickiest part, how to find the best person to invite in a threesome without botching it and without creating awkward situations with friends and family. First of all, discuss what kind of threesome you want. If you are a woman and want a second man, discuss it with your partner and see if there are any friends that might already be interested in doing that. If you are a girl and want a second girl, then things are usually easier and chances are that one of your hot girlfriends will be interested in tasting your man. Now, if you are a man and want to invite a second woman in your bed, discuss with your partner about what kind of woman would she be comfortable with having sex with. If you want to share your own woman with another man, just ask one of your buddies if they want to lend a helping penis; they would most probably be glad to help! If you have no friends that are up to the task then you must look further. Dating websites are perfect in finding sexy and dependable people for threesomes so join with your partner and browse for the perfect man or woman to join you in your sexual adventures!


Marriage And Open Relationship Can They Coexist

Married couples take vows to be faithful, loving, caring and all that, but is it possible to maintain a successful marriage AND an open relationship at the same time? It is easy to cheat on your spouse and many people do it. Cheating often leads to personal tragedies, divorces and all kinds of nasty stuff (including STDs!). However and in theory, a mutually open sexual relationship while in a marriage, can be both amazing and liberating for both the man and the woman; can this be anything more than theory though?

Yes! Below I will explain how marriage and an open sexual relationship can indeed coexist.

A matter of trust

As with most intimate things in life, sex is a matter of trust. If you or your partner wants an open sexual relationship while in marriage then you must trust each other. In an open relationship scenario, just imagine your woman out on a date with another man, or your man spending the night in the house of a girlfriend; would you trust them enough with that. They will have sex, and come back to you later. If you are comfortable with that thought (and willing to have sex with other people while your partner is away) then it is not cheating but an open relationship. If you feel bad about the though, then you are probably not ready to do this.

The next day

This is the most important part to keep a marriage apart. Assuming you have agreed in an open sexual relationship and then you or your partner had sex with another person. What do you think must happen next?

Nothing! You can resume your normal married life and not worry about it. Many couples make a drama out of an open relationship but in reality, if both parties tell each other about whom they want to have sex with and when they had sex with another person then an open relationship can proceed smoothly without drama and break-ups. It is best if you get to meet the lovers of your husband or wife in an open relationship. This prevents demonization and enforces trust (and may lead to hot threesomes too!)

The best of both worlds

If you and your partner have agreed to have an open relationship while married then you must know that there are numerous ways to go about it.

First, keep your family life and your sexual life separate. Your kids or relatives don’t need to know about your open relationship; this is a thing between the man and the woman alone.

Second, it is best to plan things ahead. If you have a hot date with a sexy college student in a certain day, then it is best if your partner also had a naughty date at the same day. Waiting on your partner to finish and come back home can be nerve-wrecking and why waste that time alone?

Third, swinging clubs and swinging with friendly couples present an interesting solution for married couples in an open sexual relationship. When swinging, you get to know who has sex with your wife or husband and actually have sex with their spouses too! If your swinging partners are hot and willing then swinging can be amazing and long-term fun. Weekly swinging with the same or other couples can maintain a healthy open relationship while in an equally healthy marriage; truly the best of both worlds!

Many couples confuse marriage with monogamy and an open relationship with polygamy while in fact these are totally unrelated. Armed with the above information you now know how you can both maintain a loving marriage and a raunchy sexually open relationship at the same time!


Sex On The Beach – How To Prepare And Things You Absolutely Must Know

Sex on the beach, under the sun or in the moonlight, can make you feel like a Hollywood star. However, if you are not adequately prepared, the sand, the water and other beachgoers can ruin the whole experience. Let’s see below how to prepare for an awesome day (or night) of sex on the beach.

Essentials you will need:

  • At least two bottles of sweet water (hydration and cleaning sensitive parts from sand)
  • A lot of sun block (for daylight sex)
  • Towels or beach mats (to lie upon and avoid sand in all private parts)
  • Lube (Astroglide, KY Jelly, etc)
  • Flashlights and lamps (if you are going for a night of passion)

Extra items that can add fun:

  • Beach chairs
  • Beach umbrella
  • Booze

Armed with the items above, head out to a quiet beach. Avoid crowded and popular spots unless you want others watching you having sex. There are a few key points you must absolutely take care of to ensure you and your partner enjoy this outdoors experience.

Sand and how to make sure it does not ruin your sex

Sand is the number one destroyer of beach sex. If sand gets inside her, everything is over as it will make things a lot more painful. To prevent sand from ruining your beach sex, first of all avoid all sexual positions that require the vagina and penis to be close to the ground. This includes regular missionary sex (yay!) and oral sex where she has to lie down. Instead go for positions where the woman is in an elevated position, such as doggy style and cowgirl, and if you want to have oral sex, do it while standing up to avoid sand getting in the sensitive parts.

If sand does get between you and your partner, stop sex and remove it. Sand destroys condom and makes sex painful for her, so clean it with care before resuming. A lot of lube also helps remove the sand and lessen its adverse effects. To make sure she enjoys it as much as you, use copious amounts of saliva or even better, commercially available lube such as Astroglide. Anal sex can be very tricky with all the sand. Unless she is very experienced and can relax her anus to the point of making it comfortable for both of you, just avoid anal sex on the beach.

Sex in the water?

Sex in the water can be amazing but you have to be careful not to perform vaginal penetration while inside the sea. There are many parasites that can infect her if the vagina is directly exposed to sea water and perhaps more importantly, sex while submerged underwater involves the risk of creating negative suction and make it almost impossible to exit the vagina thanks to the vagina cramping around the penis. This is very rare but if it happens, only a doctor can separate the couple and this can be VERY embarrassing. Just avoid vaginal sex while submerged in the water. Instead go for oral sex and perhaps anal pleasure if she is comfortable with it. It is very arousing when she dives in and sucks the tip of the penis while underwater, while it is equally amazing when he dives in and rubs her clitoris with his tongue. Just try it out!



Sex With Twins An Impossible Feat

Identical twin brothers and sisters share everything. This often includes first masturbation experiences, first kisses and first sexual experiences. When twins are sexually active, they will always discuss about their sexual experiences and sometimes swap partners (often without them knowing it!) or have sex together with other people. It is natural for twins to act that way since they have so much in common, they often regard their other twin as an extension of themselves. So, how can a girl get lucky and have sex with two identical male studs or a guy have sex with two smoking hot twin bombshells? It is certainly possible if you know how to play the game.

You won’t even know it!

Most people don’t realise that twins are very intimately connected and discuss about EVERYTHING. If your girlfriend or boyfriend has an identical twin, you can be 100% certain that the twin knows all about how you have sex and is may even ask your partner to secretly swap. Would you be able to tell the difference between your boyfriend/girlfriend and their identical twin? I know you wouldn’t so you may have already had sex with his or her twin!

Remember it is natural to want to have sex with your partner’s twin as they are identical. If you lust to have your partner’s body in your bed then it’s no surprise that you lust for his or her twin’s body too; and the twins know it all too well!

Twin guys and girls have the most threesomes than anyone else, remember that when discussing having sex with your partner and their identical twin; perhaps they have discussed it together already!

Male twin sex

If you are a girl and your hot boyfriend has an equally hot and muscular twin then the experience of two studs worshiping you can lead to mindblowing sex. Two male twins will rarely compete against each other and instead will focus on pleasing you. Double oral sex can be amazing (especially if the twins are well-equipped) and the experience of a double penetration from two identical hot studs can be something you will never forget. Finally, as twins are very synchronised you may rest assured they will orgasm at the same time. You can use that to create an amazing experience of two guys filling you up with hot sperm at the same time or ejaculating all over you with synchronicity that would make every pornstar envious. What’s better than that?

Female twin sex

This is a fantasy for all guys who are dating one hot female twin; to have sex with both twins at the same time. Having two equally gorgeous women kissing and sucking your penis can be amazing (oral pleasure squared) and when you penetrate one, the other can be caressing your balls or sit on your face for some hardcore oral action. Female twins are rarely competitive and instead work to enhance each other’s pleasure with sensual kissing and mutual pleasure. Twin girls will often perform 69 with each other and you get to choose which one to penetrate while they lick and kiss each other!

Remember to please them both equally!

This is the most important thing to remember when having sex with twin guys or girls. When you are pleasing twin guys, make sure you give equal attention to both of them, otherwise both will be displeased. When doing double penetration, alternate them between your vagina and anus so they have equal fun. For guys pleasing twin girls, it can be trickier as you can only penetrate one twin at a time. When doing so, make sure the other twin is equally satisfied either with oral sex, fingering or perhaps one or two toys. Finally, when it is time to orgasm, remember to give both twins a good orgasm and as always, share the sperm!